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| Broken hearted... |
I guess it was bound to happen and today it did... Addy came up to Cally and me at pick up time just broken hearted. She didn't want to tell me what happened so after I suggested I ask her teacher instead, Addy spilled the beans.
Addy had to move her clothes pin to YELLOW! Yellow means no candy (that would be beloved purple) or no sticker (green). All the kids start on green and if they are caught being good, they get to move up to purple and if their behavior is less than desirable, they are asked to move to yellow. Below yellow is the way serious land of red. Red requires a call or note home from the teacher.
When I asked Addy what she did to merit moving her clothes pin to yellow she insisted she didn't know what to call it. I had a feeling it involved her silly, quirky sense of humor being inserted into her kindergarten day in a place it did not belong. It was a bonus to find out that she was 'messing around' with her name twin. How fitting! BUT, name twin had to move her clothes pin to RED! I think Addy really thought she was off free and clean with that revelation!
All in all, I think experiencing the pain and trauma of putting her clothes pin in yellow land is good for Addy. Over all, Addy's behavior has been really good at school and other activities. She earned the highest marks for all of the social/rule criteria on her first quarter grades so now I think she can learn the importance of keeping those marks high. After all, candy and stickers rule!!!
Side note, check out Bear in the pants!! She even asked to wear them! :)